It might be the most challenging thing you will have to do in your life, and it will also be the most important:

Stop being linked to those who are not ready to love you.

Stop having difficult conversations with people who don’t want to change.

Stop appearing for people who are indifferent to your presence.

Stop giving your love and energy to people who are not ready to love you.

I know that your instinct is to do everything you can to earn the good graces of everyone you can, but it is also the impulse that will steal your time, your energy, and your sanity.

When you begin to be in your life ultimately, with joy, interest, and commitment, not everyone will be ready to meet you there.

That does not mean you have to change who you are. It means you have to get away from people who are not prepared to be with you.

There are billions of people on this planet, and many of them will meet you at their level, with the vibration of where they are, connect with where they are going. The more time you spend trying to force someone to be with you when they are unable, the more time you will be depriving yourself of that same connection. 

The longer you stay involved in the familiarity of people who use you as a cushion, a background option, a therapist, and a strategist for their emotional work, the longer you stay out of the community you crave.

Maybe if you stop showing up, you’ll be less loved.

Maybe they forget you completely.

Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end.

Maybe if you stop sending text messages, your phone will remain dark for days and weeks.

Maybe if you stop loving someone, the love between you will dissolve.

That doesn’t mean you ruined a relationship. It means that the only thing that sustained a relationship was the energy you and only you put into it. That’s not love. That is attachment!

The most precious and essential thing you have in your life is your energy.

It is not your time that is limited. It is your energy. What you give to each day is what will create more and more in your life. What you give your time is what will define your existence.

When you realize this, you will begin to understand why you are so anxious when you spend your time with people who do not contribute to you and in jobs or places or cities that do not suit you.

You will begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for your life, yourself, and everyone you know is to protect your energy more fiercely than anything else.

Make your life heaven where only people who can care, listen and connect are allowed.

It is your job to realize that you are the master and lover of your destiny and accept the love you think you deserve.

Decide that you deserve a real friendship, a true commitment, and complete love with people who are healthy and prosperous.

-Love. Roman

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